All That You Deserve

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Jacqueline is also a digital influencer, with a massive following on TikTok. Her videos are a fusion of poetry, calligraphy, and words of encouragement for mental health. Her content resonates with her followers, as she touches upon important topics with grace and empathy, inspiring people to be their best selves and get through their most difficult days. I hope you know you don’t have to apologize for anything that means you are putting yourself first. I hope you learn to love the person you have become. In the moments when you are alone I hope you learn that you have everything within you to comfort yourself. You don’t always have to lean on another human for comfort. You don’t have to search for outside sources to find peace. It’s uncomfortable to be alone when you’re not used to it. It’s uncomfortable to sit in the silence with your own presence and just be. It’s time to focus on yourself and no one else. Stop taking care of everyone else before you take care of yourself. Stop just trying to just get by in this life. What do you want? What do you need? What is best for you? Choosing yourself is never selfish. Before you can be the best you can be for anyone else you have to be the best you can be for yourself. I know it’s natural to compare your life to others when social media is a part of your daily routine. I know being alone can overflow you with anxiety and overthinking.

You have been through so much and you got through it—you will get through this, too. It will all be okay. What doesn’t make sense now will make sense someday. You will end up where you belong. You will end up with who you belong with. You will find what you’re looking for when you are meant to find it. Everything doesn’t happen for a reason, but you can find a reason to keep going no matter what happens. You are learning. You are growing. You are not your mistakes. You are not what other people think of you. You are what you think of yourself. Even if you don’t feel like you matter to everyone, you matter to someone and that is important to remember. Please, be strong in who you are. And please, don’t let the actions of another convince you that you are not good enough as you are. It’s so normal to see other people living their lives and feel bad about yourself because you don’t have the energy to live yours like them. It’s so normal to want to isolate yourself from the world when you feel like the world is too much. But please, don’t hide your heart because you feel like you’re too much. You are never too much for the right people. If someone makes you feel like you are too much, maybe they’re not someone you need around. We so easily convince ourselves we’re a burden even when we’re reminded we’re not. People want to be there for you. People want to love you. Let them love you. The people who judge you are not secure within themselves. If they were, they would know kindness is the only way to treat someone.This is a nice book, at all. Aku kasih bintang 4 dulu karena rasanya tuh… kalimat yang ada di buku ini terkesan looping (berulang). Jadi, aku gak nangkep banyak pelajaran dari buku ini, karena banyak kalimat berulang yang polanya sama.

What seems like an insignificant chapter of your life now may turn into one of the most important ones in the end. You are rising and blooming into a beautiful story. This is a guided meditation and poetry reading to help you release any anxiety you are holding in your body. Thank you for being here. I hope you don’t lose yourself trying to prove yourself to everyone else. You have nothing to prove to anyone, really. Really, if at the end of the day you can say you tried your best that day, that is more than enough. Your best won’t look the same everyday and that is more than okay. People can think all that they want about you, but the opinions of others don’t define you. Whatever it is that you’ve been holding in, you don’t have to hold it in any longer. Talk to someone. You will feel better. You should", "You will", "You deserve", ini tuh jadi perawalan kalimat yang paling banyak aku temukan di buku ini. Ya, hal ini memang seakan-akan mengajak reader agar tersugesti dengan kalimatnya.

Life isn’t about how much you get done every day. Life is meant to be lived in a way that fills you with a collection of moments that make you so grateful to exist. When you are going through a difficult time, some people will distance themselves from you, not because they are bad people, but because they cannot understand. It’s quite possible the people who walk away from you will regret it later on. Your worth is not a reflection of how many people choose to stay. Watching someone you love lose someone they love is hard. Their pain becomes your pain. Their grief, in a way, becomes your grief. Watching their heart ache and their eyes dry of tears is difficult to experience. It’s this awkward yet powerful experience of learning to love them in a way that is completely selfless. It’s almost like an out-of-body experience. You have to let go of your needs for some time and wrap yourself in their needs. You have to take care of them knowing that in this situation, taking care of them is taking care of yourself. You learn so much about your capacity for compassion. You learn so much about your love for them. You learn the power of rest. You learn the strength every soul has within to be carried through grief.